Ram is working in a software company.
He developed a left shoulder back pain. I asked him whether he has any problem in the office. He replied that he has no role in the office and therefore, he is not working to his satisfaction.
The Message from his body is, “Because of your lack of interest, your contribution is less in the office. You are giving less than you are receiving. If you continue to do so, in the future you will get lesser appreciation. There may be a cut in the salary too. Even if you find a new job you will be paid less there. If you don’t want these things to happen then give 100% of your efforts”. Otherwise your receiving will become lesser and lesser.
I asked him to affirm ‘I choose to find ways to give 100%. I stop resisting the present job. I accept it totally’.
The moment he committed, the body pain was reduced. Please note that there is no right or wrong here!
A girl after she got married and moved to her husband’s house, very often she phoned up her mother asking for suggestions concerning how to handle her in-laws. In no way she could mingle with her in-laws. In addition, she will complain about them to her parents. She compared her husband’s actions with her father’s and pointed out the differences between them.
She developed a lower back pain. Lower back means place of support. There is no pain while sitting or lying. There is pain only while walking. The body says “you are secured here. By your behaviour don’t spoil your place in your new family. Adjust yourself to fit in here. This is your place of security.”
Soon after her marriage, the girl developed a feeling of being forsaken as she was away from her parents. She felt insecure and lonely without her father around. A sense of incapacity had set inside her. She was resisting changing and adjusting to the new environment and thus a new phase of her life.
One dose of Bach Flower Remedy Walnut and Chicory cured her pain. Within one month, she acclimatized to the new environment.
Change is the order of life. Accept it.
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Pain in the Right Ankle – “reverse the decision”, is the message from the body.
If you get the pain when the job was offered, then don’t accept the job.
Vinay’s marriage got fixed. His would-be is based at US.
The marriage was fixed after six months.
Soon after, he met with a small accident. His right ankle got bruised.
Heard a Rumour
Three months later, he received an anonymous letter stating that the girl has an affair.
His family didn’t believe it.
Vinay’s pain in the right ankle didn’t go.
He consulted me.
I asked him, “Are you communicating with the girl?” He replied that he did not even receive an email from her to-date.
I told him in person that the marriage will not take place and asked him to reverse the decision of marrying that person. That’s what his body is informing Vinay through the bruise in the right ankle.
He started contemplating it but his parents were adamant to go ahead with the marriage.
Honour Your Body
I asked him to affirm, “Divinity takes care of my future. I honor the decision of my body. I decide not to marry this girl’.
His pain reduced by 25%.
He said “NO” for the marriage, but his parents were upset and didn’t agree to that.
I asked him to stick to that point, for nothing untoward will happen, and to wait and watch.
Wedding Arrangement In-progress
Wedding invitations were printed and were ready for distribution.
Around that time, the girl’s parents approached Vinay’s parents and told them that their daughter has been absconding for the last 4 months.
I told Vinay, “You have honored your body’s message and its advice. Now say thanks to the body by taking an oil bath. Please take a massage too – as it’s one way of accepting the body and loving the body for having guided you in the right direction.”
Please note the above material is from the monthly meeting held on Jan and Feb 2009 on Mind and Body Intelligence: