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Never Divorce Your Husband

One 75 years old lady came to see me. She had a right knee problem.

Never can I thank my father

I asked her, “How is the relationship with your father?”

She said, “Fine. We had a very cordial relationship”

“There is no thanks in your heart for him. Can you thank him? Think about all that he had done to you. Thank him for the same”.

She became silent and curtly went off. After about one week, she phoned up to me. “As I came with my son-in-law last time, I could not tell you anything in front of him. To tell the truth, I am not able to thank my father”.

A promise that resulted in suffering

“Why”.

 “Only because of him I suffered all my life”.

Her father showed her a boy when she was to be married and told her that she had to marry him. She agreed to her father. On the date of marriage he came and asked her, “Give me a promise. Whatever happens in your life you would not divorce this boy”.  She gave a promise to her father that she would not divorce him at any cost.

Her marriage was an abusive affair

From the date of marriage, her husband had been physically abusing her. It was a total harassment. She got two children through him and they are well placed now. Because she gave a promise to her father, she did not divorce her husband. All along she had been cursing her father for the same reasons.

She said, “I am a free bird now after my husband’s death. I can neither forgive my husband nor my father”.

Positives in the sufferings

I asked her, “In spite of all these bad events there must be at least one positive event in your life. Only for that purpose you have suffered in your life”.

She is a staunch devotee of Puttaparthi Sai Baba. When her marriage failed, she wanted a spiritual asylum. Therefore, she went to Baba. She composed and sang many songs on gods like Devi, and about Baba. She was also allotted a house there in Puttaparthi.

She had a great spiritual progress. Throughout the day, she was singing only Bhajans. Her life was totally changed to spirituality and she lived a life of an ascetic.

I asked her, “Is this not a positive point? I think only for this aspect your husband behaved like that. If the suffering was not there then you would have lived an ordinary life. We say, Atmavan Bhava, which means ‘I am not the doer’. Like that your husband is also not the doer. When we say we are not the doers, the opposite person is also not the doer”.

When she understood that Divine is the doer, automatically she started forgiving and she is free from her knee pain now.

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Bend With Love

Kishore

I am 67 yrs old.

My Blood has Cantankerous HLAB27. I am getting FROZEN Spine from Neck Downwards, unable to Bend, Twist on Bed.

Please tell me the divine switch word as the Disease is incurable entropy of body till Death.

Naran

Review your life.

1.       Find in which part of life or with whom you are unbending.

We have certain beliefs, by following of which, we might have hurt someone.

During our life we tend to find fault in others, whether family or friends or government. When we criticise or do back biting, we ignore the love, beauty and grace of the divine operating in this world.

In life, nothing that we acquire (our principle, our beliefs, our opinions, our knowledge) is important.

2.       Assess the life in terms of love.

How much love have you given?

Were you tolerant and respecting others?

Were you in a state of forgiveness?

Were you motherly?

Asses as even now it is not late.

3.       Revisit your past and Change every event of life as the life of love.

Visualise every event.

Ask for forgiveness.

Fill it up with love and gratitude.

Visualise every event. Say “I am sorry, please forgive me. Let me fill my heart with love and gratitude, to experience the divine within me”.

Every minute thank the divine for all the events in life.

4.       Repeat saying the following releasing statements:

  •  “I release my desire to control or change anything”.
  •  “I release my desire to be loved”.
  •  “I release my fear of life”

Do it as many times as possible.

5.       Write in a piece of paper “ADJUST CHANGE DIVINE ORDER” and keep it under the pillow.

  •  Adjust: switch word to adjust to the circumstances and painful situations
  •  Change Divine Order: switch words to achieve perfect health

I still miss my father!!!

Raji had severe pain in the back of left shoulder after her father’s demise

Naran

Are you denying, resisting and receiving?

Raji’s father is no more. From then, she withdrew from life. Even though people around her tried to console her, she denied their concerns. She told them that she doesn’t want anybody to console her and wanted to be alone. Finally, she stopped talking to all her relatives.

What’s the message from her body here? What does it indicate by the pain on the left shoulder back?

The message from her body is, “If you don’t receive love now, you can’t get love in the future, whenever you want it or need it. Life will become loveless. Your love account will become empty then. Therefore, receive love from others and don’t reject them”.

The affirmation, ‘I am ready to enrich my life with love’ reduced the pain as soon as she affirmed.

When she started talking to her relatives whatever pain that was left in her vanished completely.

My Body reminded My Promise to My Father

Ignoring the advice of the parent could be a reason too for knee pain.

Ragu got a pain in the right knee. He forgot the promise made by him to his father.  I asked him if there was an issue with his father because right knee points to father. He replied until his death they were good friends.

Has he forgotten any promise made to his father? He remembered about the promise he made to his father before the latter died. He requested his son to do his cremation at Badrinath. Ragu agreed to do it.

After his Dad died at the age of 70, Ragu decided to do it, after the 13-day ceremony.  But the Priest told him to do it after one year. He forgot to do it. After 10 years, he had got a pain in the right knee – reminding him about that.

Gave him flower remedies – Rock Water and Walnut. Subsequently his pain subsided.

I asked him to go to Badrinath now. He booked a train. Then, he got into the train. As soon as the train started, his pain was gone. Until then body didn’t trust him. Because train has started he will be going to Badrinath.

His body’s watching him every minute. It’s so intelligent.

Treatment is different. Healing is different. Think about the life issue and resolve it.

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