A girl of 21 years old approached me for pain in her left shoulder which has become immobile. This girl loved a person from a different caste. She was forced to stay in the house as their affair was not approved by her father.
I asked her to tell her background and narrate on what happened before she had the pain. She broke down and said she is in love with a person and that person is good.
I told her, “Forget about your parents. Let us get an answer from the body. Even if the pain goes by 10%, then the body is confirming it”.
She affirmed, ‘I am not worried about others as I believe that god is guiding me. God is guiding me to marry the person of my choice.’
As she said the affirmation few times, her pain went down quite a bit. This means her body is favoring the marriage. It says don’t worry about caste. Don’t worry about the approval of your marriage. God (through your body) is guiding you to marry him. God is approving this marriage, why we need others’ approval. It is not necessary.
I asked her to honor the body by marrying her lover. She is happily married to that person now.
Left Shoulder Back Pain Indicates…
- When you are not appreciated or not recognized.
- When you are put to shame
- When your actions are considered bad, regarded as incorrect, or not approved by others.
You will get pain initially. Then numbness will develop as more and more you go through those feelings.
Pain in the Right Ankle – “reverse the decision”, is the message from the body.
If you get the pain when the job was offered, then don’t accept the job.
Vinay’s marriage got fixed. His would-be is based at US.
The marriage was fixed after six months.
Soon after, he met with a small accident. His right ankle got bruised.
Heard a Rumour
Three months later, he received an anonymous letter stating that the girl has an affair.
His family didn’t believe it.
Vinay’s pain in the right ankle didn’t go.
He consulted me.
I asked him, “Are you communicating with the girl?” He replied that he did not even receive an email from her to-date.
I told him in person that the marriage will not take place and asked him to reverse the decision of marrying that person. That’s what his body is informing Vinay through the bruise in the right ankle.
He started contemplating it but his parents were adamant to go ahead with the marriage.
Honour Your Body
I asked him to affirm, “Divinity takes care of my future. I honor the decision of my body. I decide not to marry this girl’.
His pain reduced by 25%.
He said “NO” for the marriage, but his parents were upset and didn’t agree to that.
I asked him to stick to that point, for nothing untoward will happen, and to wait and watch.
Wedding Arrangement In-progress
Wedding invitations were printed and were ready for distribution.
Around that time, the girl’s parents approached Vinay’s parents and told them that their daughter has been absconding for the last 4 months.
I told Vinay, “You have honored your body’s message and its advice. Now say thanks to the body by taking an oil bath. Please take a massage too – as it’s one way of accepting the body and loving the body for having guided you in the right direction.”
Please note the above material is from the monthly meeting held on Jan and Feb 2009 on Mind and Body Intelligence: