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Cannot support my parents

Kavi

Yesterday, as my son climbed on a chair, he tripped and the chair fell on my right foot. He escaped unhurt and my right foot is paining now especially near the fourth toe. Also, I develop severe itching on the sides of both my thighs only during night.

Naran

“Release your fear about the child” is the message from your body. If you have any guilt about anything, release that too.

Kavi

I have guilt about many things in life – especially about the fact that I cannot support my parents financially since I don’t work. I always dreamed about looking after them since childhood. They live in a rented house and I feel guilty about that too.

I have made many mistakes in the past that I feel guilty about. If I had not done those mistakes and saved money while I was working, I could have looked after my parents now.

How do I release my guilt and fear?

Naran

Take the flower Remedy PINE.

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Issues over Ancestral Property

If there is a conflict over an ancestral property and if a person involved in the conflict develops a knee pain, then the message for them is “end the conflict amicably”, and “do not be possessive”.

I will give you an example to understand this concept easily.

There were two brothers. Their ancestral property was in Anna Nagar, Chennai. One of them came to me. He was 86 years old and he had a knee pain. His brother was 87 years old.

If a patient complains about others we can immediately infer then that whatever he tells about others is applicable only to him.

The elder brother is living outside Chennai from his age of 24 years.

When the younger brother wanted to sell the property, the elder brother told him, “I was not in Chennai and you have enjoyed the property all these years. So you have to give me twenty lakhs more”.

The younger one replied, “I will not give you any extra share in property as I have maintained the house all these years.  I have spent lot of money for maintaining the house, for which you have not contributed anything”.

He told me, “Whatever my brother is asking is unfair. His advocate also agrees with me. However, my brother is very stubborn. “

I asked him, “Since how long you have this knee problem?”

“For the last six years”.

“How long you have been trying to sell this house?”

“For the past six years“– came the reply.

“Are you ready to give any amount to your brother?”

“Yes. I am ready to give him 10 lakhs of rupees”.

“When you are ready to give him money means that your brother is fair. You have accepted him asking for money. Therefore, you give him whatever he demands. There is no knee problem to your elder brother”.

“Though, you may say so many things to justify your stand, the body is only thinking about your Karma. It says, ‘Do not be possessive. Yield and end the conflict amicably as it is for your own good’”.

I told him to say to the knee, ‘I thank you my knee. I am ready to yield to my brother’s request and accept his demand”. Immediately the pain reduced.

The third message here, “Love is more important than money”.

Never Divorce Your Husband

One 75 years old lady came to see me. She had a right knee problem.

Never can I thank my father

I asked her, “How is the relationship with your father?”

She said, “Fine. We had a very cordial relationship”

“There is no thanks in your heart for him. Can you thank him? Think about all that he had done to you. Thank him for the same”.

She became silent and curtly went off. After about one week, she phoned up to me. “As I came with my son-in-law last time, I could not tell you anything in front of him. To tell the truth, I am not able to thank my father”.

A promise that resulted in suffering

“Why”.

 “Only because of him I suffered all my life”.

Her father showed her a boy when she was to be married and told her that she had to marry him. She agreed to her father. On the date of marriage he came and asked her, “Give me a promise. Whatever happens in your life you would not divorce this boy”.  She gave a promise to her father that she would not divorce him at any cost.

Her marriage was an abusive affair

From the date of marriage, her husband had been physically abusing her. It was a total harassment. She got two children through him and they are well placed now. Because she gave a promise to her father, she did not divorce her husband. All along she had been cursing her father for the same reasons.

She said, “I am a free bird now after my husband’s death. I can neither forgive my husband nor my father”.

Positives in the sufferings

I asked her, “In spite of all these bad events there must be at least one positive event in your life. Only for that purpose you have suffered in your life”.

She is a staunch devotee of Puttaparthi Sai Baba. When her marriage failed, she wanted a spiritual asylum. Therefore, she went to Baba. She composed and sang many songs on gods like Devi, and about Baba. She was also allotted a house there in Puttaparthi.

She had a great spiritual progress. Throughout the day, she was singing only Bhajans. Her life was totally changed to spirituality and she lived a life of an ascetic.

I asked her, “Is this not a positive point? I think only for this aspect your husband behaved like that. If the suffering was not there then you would have lived an ordinary life. We say, Atmavan Bhava, which means ‘I am not the doer’. Like that your husband is also not the doer. When we say we are not the doers, the opposite person is also not the doer”.

When she understood that Divine is the doer, automatically she started forgiving and she is free from her knee pain now.

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