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Unpack your anger

Sathya

My husband’s acupuncturist says his liver is heated too much. What does it indicate? He asked him to put liver pack daily.

Naran

Anger, rage and unconnected with parents

Sathya

My husband is frustrated about his parents. How to overcome this?

My father-in-law has two wives. He lives with his 2nd wife and showing no attention to my husband’s family.

Naran

It is not his concern. “Judging the father, and getting angry as well as feeling frustrated is not required; you go on your own way, without being angry with him” is the message for him from his BODY.

Ask him to do the forgiving exercise (regarding his father).

Ask him to chant “BE TINY CONCEDE CLEAR REVERSE LOVE NOW” daily 108 times for one year.

Sathya

I am sorry to say this. He is not into chanting but he will take pills.

So can you pls suggest flower remedies for him and I will try to make him chant the above words.

Naran

He has to chant. There is no alternative.

Give him BEECH, WALNUT, HOLLY and CHERRY PLUM to tolerate and stop judging, release the anger and to bear without resisting.

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Pain in hands

Naran

Working hard and not getting the reward – one will get pain in the right hand.

If one works hard, but doesn’t bother about the reward then, he will get the pain in the left hand.

His wife is more concerned about the reward than him. He is a workaholic. The body is telling him don’t be a workaholic and stop working hard.

Why to work hard when you don’t have time for your children and your wife. Stop doing overwork (Bach Flower Remedy OAK)

If you had not helped somebody in times of need.

Right Shoulder Back Side Pain

You have not fulfilled your commitment

If you are avoiding somebody, meet him and you will be benefited. The pain may come in the left shoulder also.

One may give too much advice to others; the body’s message is “Stop the advice and understand his priorities instead”.

Restricting and choking the other man.

Left Shoulders Pain

If there is a pain in left shoulder, left hand, left arm or fingers from left hand then ask the question, do you harbor the following thoughts:

  • I am not respected
  • My achievements are not appreciated
  • My role in the family or at work is not recognized.
  • For example, when the husband works 24/7, his wife thinks “I am not wanted here. I am not just a cook. I want to be appreciated.”

We are living in this world to get some love, some appreciation and some recognition.  What else we need?

To get your due recognition, take the flower remedies CENTAURY and CHICORY.

Left Shoulder Back Pain

  • You have misunderstood somebody. You have to resolve it and have to take the first step.
  • You have to collect your dues.
  • Prevented somebody from doing something. Two friends: one wanted to go to a temple, while another one forced him to go to a movie. The latter developed a pain in the left shoulder

Pain in the Elbows

Sathya

My husband got left elbow pain and again. He got hit at the left elbow again for 2 times.

What does it indicate?

Naran S Balakumar

He is unable to devote time to the loved ones, especially his wife.

Please take care of me – a Case History

Venki, a thirteen years old kid, whenever he takes a pen to write something, he will get pain in his right arm – his writing hand.

If there is pain in the right hand – “take care of me” is the message. With the pain in his right hand, he is telling his parents to take care of him.

What’s the problem here?  He is terribly angry with his parents.

However, while he was talking with Naran, he was holding his left elbow.

Elbows are used to embrace others. Right hand holding the left elbow –i.e. his (giving) right hand supporting his left (receiving) elbow indicates that he wants appreciation and love.

Venki was studying in 8th standard. Not even once, any of his parents attended his school. He was first in athletics and a class topper in Tamil, his mother tongue.  No appreciation from his parents regarding this.

He was average in other subjects. His parents told him that if he gets 1st in any other subjects – like Math and science, then they would come to his school.

His body is saying “Hey! Parents take care of me!  I need to be loved”.

He was prescribed the Bach Flower Remedies CHICORY (longing for love) and WILLOW (for his anger against parents).

His parents were advised to give the emotional security that the child needs.

Diabetes and Left knee pain

Mrs. RNI

My husband is 61 yrs old. We live and work at Muscat at this time. He has been diagnosed diabetic in 1986 (when he was 35 yrs).

He has been just increasing the dosage of his allopathic medicines to control his diabetes. It no longer works and doctor has asked him to go for injections, which he refuses to.

He has been having severe pain in the left knee since mid-April.

The allopath doctor gave an injection in the bone and said it is beginning of paralysis. He also said not to massage with any oils or balms. Only to keep ice packs.

He cannot lie down horizontal and sleep or turn sides. The pain is bearable if he is moving about, but unbearable when he comes home and relaxes. I cannot bear to see him suffering so much. Please suggest a mantra for healing this problem urgently.

We cannot leave this job and go away to India (Mumbai). We have a daughter who will be getting married in Dec 2013. Until then, we have to be here and working.

Naran

Left knee indicates that he has done something unfair to his mother.

Let him analyze his relationship, his thoughts and opinions about her.

Ask him to do the forgiving exercise daily 200 times.

Download a picture Kausalya (Sri Rama’s mother) and keep it under his pillow.

Ask him to thank all the places, where he stayed and lived in his sixty years of life.

Chant “OAK, CHERRY PLUM, WALNUT” 100 times over a cup of water and give him that water daily.

You chant “CHICORY, RED CHESTNUT, CHERRY PLUM”.

There need not be any concern for diabetes.

Can women find solutions to the problems they face?

Rushrush

Can we women find a complete solution to recurring gyneac problems e.g. UTI, yeast infections, pelvic inflammatory disease, urinary incontinence, uterus prolapse or weak pelvic muscles.

Like one mantra to solve all these problems!!

I would appreciate your guidance as I am sure this would be a common problem for most women.

Naran

Your question though puzzling, is quite interesting. All these gyneac and their symptoms have only one common thread: “Unable to accept the gender or sexuality in which one is born”.

It is there in most of the women.

These gyneac problems suggest that the fairer sex is not accepting or constantly resisting her role as a female.

Message from the body

For women’s urinary tract infections: one is too much attached with her parents – unable to detach and relate well with the in-laws. It could be either homesickness or comparing the in-laws with their parents.

Uterus prolapse: total denial and resistance to the menstruation cycles.

Pelvic inflammation: rigidity in the relationship with the husband.

Weak pelvic muscles: inability to accept and love oneself; total denial of what is happening; or feeling powerless.

Urinary incontinence: the mind constantly worries and wants to go back to the child state. Wanting to be taken care off.

Mudra for healing

The following Hara Mudra can help all the women in general:

Right hand thumb touching ring and little fingers. Left hand touching middle finger and ring finger

Be in this Mudra and chant, “I OPEN up myself to the LOVE, BEAUTY and GRACE of the DIVINE”.

 

Never Divorce Your Husband

One 75 years old lady came to see me. She had a right knee problem.

Never can I thank my father

I asked her, “How is the relationship with your father?”

She said, “Fine. We had a very cordial relationship”

“There is no thanks in your heart for him. Can you thank him? Think about all that he had done to you. Thank him for the same”.

She became silent and curtly went off. After about one week, she phoned up to me. “As I came with my son-in-law last time, I could not tell you anything in front of him. To tell the truth, I am not able to thank my father”.

A promise that resulted in suffering

“Why”.

 “Only because of him I suffered all my life”.

Her father showed her a boy when she was to be married and told her that she had to marry him. She agreed to her father. On the date of marriage he came and asked her, “Give me a promise. Whatever happens in your life you would not divorce this boy”.  She gave a promise to her father that she would not divorce him at any cost.

Her marriage was an abusive affair

From the date of marriage, her husband had been physically abusing her. It was a total harassment. She got two children through him and they are well placed now. Because she gave a promise to her father, she did not divorce her husband. All along she had been cursing her father for the same reasons.

She said, “I am a free bird now after my husband’s death. I can neither forgive my husband nor my father”.

Positives in the sufferings

I asked her, “In spite of all these bad events there must be at least one positive event in your life. Only for that purpose you have suffered in your life”.

She is a staunch devotee of Puttaparthi Sai Baba. When her marriage failed, she wanted a spiritual asylum. Therefore, she went to Baba. She composed and sang many songs on gods like Devi, and about Baba. She was also allotted a house there in Puttaparthi.

She had a great spiritual progress. Throughout the day, she was singing only Bhajans. Her life was totally changed to spirituality and she lived a life of an ascetic.

I asked her, “Is this not a positive point? I think only for this aspect your husband behaved like that. If the suffering was not there then you would have lived an ordinary life. We say, Atmavan Bhava, which means ‘I am not the doer’. Like that your husband is also not the doer. When we say we are not the doers, the opposite person is also not the doer”.

When she understood that Divine is the doer, automatically she started forgiving and she is free from her knee pain now.

I Got a Back Pain Soon After My Marriage

A girl after she got married and moved to her husband’s house, very often she phoned up her mother asking for suggestions concerning how to handle her in-laws. In no way she could mingle with her in-laws.  In addition, she will complain about them to her parents. She compared her husband’s actions with her father’s and pointed out the differences between them.

She developed a lower back pain. Lower back means place of support. There is no pain while sitting or lying. There is pain only while walking. The body says “you are secured here. By your behaviour don’t spoil your place in your new family. Adjust yourself to fit in here. This is your place of security.”

Soon after her marriage, the girl developed a feeling of being forsaken as she was away from her parents.  She felt insecure and lonely without her father around. A sense of incapacity had set inside her. She was resisting changing and adjusting to the new environment and thus a new phase of her life.

One dose of Bach Flower Remedy Walnut and Chicory cured her pain. Within one month, she acclimatized to the new environment.

Change is the order of life. Accept it.

Please check to know more about Mind-Body intelligence:

http://www.naranheal.com/mudras.php?cat_id=45

Separated Relationship

Naran

Vidya is married for 25 yrs. Now she has a herniated disk and back pain as well.

On their first night, Vidya told her husband that she is not interested in physical intimacy. However, they can get intimate only to give birth to a child. Later on, they have to abstain from it.

The husband would have wished if she had told him earlier, he would not have married her at all.

However, God has a reason behind every action. It is God’s Will.

She Imposed Her Will on Her Husband

They had a son and their physical relationship ended as she decided.

She had imposed her will on her husband! In addition, she was separated from him emotionally.

Now after 25 years, around the age of 55, she has the pain.

For the past five years, she has consulted many doctors, but to no relief from the pain. She had undergone different kinds of treatments and had gone through various types of scans too.

Let Us Analyze Her Case

Hernia means separation.

Back disks are separated as she has separated (alienated) herself from her husband.

Body is telling her now that what she had done twenty-five years ago back is not correct.

It would have warned her even at that young age in the form of pain. She would have taken then some painkillers. As she was young, she would have overcome the pain comfortably.

Unfortunately, at this age, she cannot rectify the mistake.

Therefore, I asked her to do the forgiving exercise.

The Forgiving Exercise given:

  • She was to write her husband’s name and her name on a piece of paper, and kept it on her left palm.
  • Then close it with her right palm and affirmed, “I am sorry. Please forgive me. Love, Thanks, and Divine!”
  • Then she had to visualise sending them both to God’s source, to be healed by its light and love.
  • Then she was to bring them back from God’s source and affirm, “Love! Thanks! Divine!”
  • In addition, she had to do the affirmation, “Let this not happen in my next life. Let me then unite with my husband mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually”.

Her Progress Was Miraculous

When I suggested the above, I did not have much hope. However, after one month, she was almost all right.

She learnt yoga. Initially she had difficulties. However, after a few days of Yoga and Pranayama, she gradually gained some improvement.

Now her movements are not restricted. Her pain is bearable as well.  She is able to walk joyfully. However, she feels a little bit of pain now and then.

Explanation

Once you realize your mistake and ready to rectify it, then the body adjusts and rectifies the pain with the thinking let this person be pardoned 🙂

Please note the above material is from the monthly meeting held on Jan and Feb 2009 on Mind and Body Intelligence.

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