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Issues over Ancestral Property

If there is a conflict over an ancestral property and if a person involved in the conflict develops a knee pain, then the message for them is “end the conflict amicably”, and “do not be possessive”.

I will give you an example to understand this concept easily.

There were two brothers. Their ancestral property was in Anna Nagar, Chennai. One of them came to me. He was 86 years old and he had a knee pain. His brother was 87 years old.

If a patient complains about others we can immediately infer then that whatever he tells about others is applicable only to him.

The elder brother is living outside Chennai from his age of 24 years.

When the younger brother wanted to sell the property, the elder brother told him, “I was not in Chennai and you have enjoyed the property all these years. So you have to give me twenty lakhs more”.

The younger one replied, “I will not give you any extra share in property as I have maintained the house all these years.  I have spent lot of money for maintaining the house, for which you have not contributed anything”.

He told me, “Whatever my brother is asking is unfair. His advocate also agrees with me. However, my brother is very stubborn. “

I asked him, “Since how long you have this knee problem?”

“For the last six years”.

“How long you have been trying to sell this house?”

“For the past six years“– came the reply.

“Are you ready to give any amount to your brother?”

“Yes. I am ready to give him 10 lakhs of rupees”.

“When you are ready to give him money means that your brother is fair. You have accepted him asking for money. Therefore, you give him whatever he demands. There is no knee problem to your elder brother”.

“Though, you may say so many things to justify your stand, the body is only thinking about your Karma. It says, ‘Do not be possessive. Yield and end the conflict amicably as it is for your own good’”.

I told him to say to the knee, ‘I thank you my knee. I am ready to yield to my brother’s request and accept his demand”. Immediately the pain reduced.

The third message here, “Love is more important than money”.

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I follow my father’s footsteps

Knee is the guiding self – it’s the parents’ self. Only parents’ related issue will come in the knees. I might be repeating what my father had done or I might be lacking a resource that my father had. Your body reminds that to you through a pain in the knee.

Case History 1: Just 1% mismatch between Son and Father

Right knee refers to one’s relationship with father, while the left knee points to mother. 

A person had problem with his right knee. I asked him whether he had any issues with his father. He replied that “by all means everything is ok with my father. He is a role model for me. I follow him by the book.”

I asked him to tell me where he doesn’t follow his father. You might have followed him 99%. But one percent you may not have followed him. Find that out and follow that practice. Your father wants you to follow that too.

He replied there is one difference between them. While his father was close to his mother, he is not close to his wife.  I told him to take care of his wife and love her as his father did to his mother. Whatever be the circumstances, daily affirm within, “I totally accept and love my wife as she is” and implement it in practice. This is your father’s message through the right knee pain.

Please note here that not all sons who had thrown out his parents may get a pain in the right knee, while somebody might get it. It depends on their karma. Only when the pain comes, the issue should be addressed.

Case History 2: Postponement of Marriage

Girija’s father is no more. For one year I couldn’t figure out a solution. She took some remedies. She did an operation too. But nothing relieved her pain.

She loves a person and the latter loves her so much, that he wanted to marry her. But, she was postponing it. I asked her when her father did marry. He got married when he was 38 years old. But he died at the age of 40.

What’s the message here: get married earlier. You are already 31. You don’t want to end up like your father. Otherwise you may loose your husband or he might die earlier. Don’t repeat your father’s life.

Body guides us so beautifully!

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