My husband is 61 yrs old. We live and work at Muscat at this time. He has been diagnosed diabetic in 1986 (when he was 35 yrs).
He has been just increasing the dosage of his allopathic medicines to control his diabetes. It no longer works and doctor has asked him to go for injections, which he refuses to.
He has been having severe pain in the left knee since mid-April.
The allopath doctor gave an injection in the bone and said it is beginning of paralysis. He also said not to massage with any oils or balms. Only to keep ice packs.
He cannot lie down horizontal and sleep or turn sides. The pain is bearable if he is moving about, but unbearable when he comes home and relaxes. I cannot bear to see him suffering so much. Please suggest a mantra for healing this problem urgently.
We cannot leave this job and go away to India (Mumbai). We have a daughter who will be getting married in Dec 2013. Until then, we have to be here and working.
Left knee indicates that he has done something unfair to his mother.
Let him analyze his relationship, his thoughts and opinions about her.
Ask him to do the forgiving exercise daily 200 times.
Download a picture Kausalya (Sri Rama’s mother) and keep it under his pillow.
Ask him to thank all the places, where he stayed and lived in his sixty years of life.
Chant “OAK, CHERRY PLUM, WALNUT” 100 times over a cup of water and give him that water daily.
You chant “CHICORY, RED CHESTNUT, CHERRY PLUM”.
There need not be any concern for diabetes.
One 75 years old lady came to see me. She had a right knee problem.
Never can I thank my father
I asked her, “How is the relationship with your father?”
She said, “Fine. We had a very cordial relationship”
“There is no thanks in your heart for him. Can you thank him? Think about all that he had done to you. Thank him for the same”.
She became silent and curtly went off. After about one week, she phoned up to me. “As I came with my son-in-law last time, I could not tell you anything in front of him. To tell the truth, I am not able to thank my father”.
A promise that resulted in suffering
“Only because of him I suffered all my life”.
Her father showed her a boy when she was to be married and told her that she had to marry him. She agreed to her father. On the date of marriage he came and asked her, “Give me a promise. Whatever happens in your life you would not divorce this boy”. She gave a promise to her father that she would not divorce him at any cost.
Her marriage was an abusive affair
From the date of marriage, her husband had been physically abusing her. It was a total harassment. She got two children through him and they are well placed now. Because she gave a promise to her father, she did not divorce her husband. All along she had been cursing her father for the same reasons.
She said, “I am a free bird now after my husband’s death. I can neither forgive my husband nor my father”.
Positives in the sufferings
I asked her, “In spite of all these bad events there must be at least one positive event in your life. Only for that purpose you have suffered in your life”.
She is a staunch devotee of Puttaparthi Sai Baba. When her marriage failed, she wanted a spiritual asylum. Therefore, she went to Baba. She composed and sang many songs on gods like Devi, and about Baba. She was also allotted a house there in Puttaparthi.
She had a great spiritual progress. Throughout the day, she was singing only Bhajans. Her life was totally changed to spirituality and she lived a life of an ascetic.
I asked her, “Is this not a positive point? I think only for this aspect your husband behaved like that. If the suffering was not there then you would have lived an ordinary life. We say, Atmavan Bhava, which means ‘I am not the doer’. Like that your husband is also not the doer. When we say we are not the doers, the opposite person is also not the doer”.
When she understood that Divine is the doer, automatically she started forgiving and she is free from her knee pain now.
Ignoring the advice of the parent could be a reason too for knee pain.
Ragu got a pain in the right knee. He forgot the promise made by him to his father. I asked him if there was an issue with his father because right knee points to father. He replied until his death they were good friends.
Has he forgotten any promise made to his father? He remembered about the promise he made to his father before the latter died. He requested his son to do his cremation at Badrinath. Ragu agreed to do it.
After his Dad died at the age of 70, Ragu decided to do it, after the 13-day ceremony. But the Priest told him to do it after one year. He forgot to do it. After 10 years, he had got a pain in the right knee – reminding him about that.
Gave him flower remedies – Rock Water and Walnut. Subsequently his pain subsided.
I asked him to go to Badrinath now. He booked a train. Then, he got into the train. As soon as the train started, his pain was gone. Until then body didn’t trust him. Because train has started he will be going to Badrinath.
His body’s watching him every minute. It’s so intelligent.
Treatment is different. Healing is different. Think about the life issue and resolve it.