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No Support for the Widowed Father

Sometimes it can happen in the family that one can’t be in the position to support a person due to family circumstances.

A person aged 48 approached me for his lower back pain. The pain is more on the right side. After finding that there is no financial insecurity, no loan to repay and no job insecurity, I asked him a simple question whether he is not giving the required support to any elders in the family? It may be due to the circumstances. If you say “yes”, then keep in mind that the body wants you to give the needed care and protection to that person.  If you take steps for that, your body will relieve you from the pain. To find the veracity of this, you can chant, “I willingly lend support to so and so”. If the pain starts reducing, then this is the mental cause, and you have to follow what you said. The message of the body is “do not create instability in others”.

Then he came out with the story. His father (widower) was taken care of by him and his three brothers, taking turns every three months. One son went on a business tour for a month and wants his brothers to take care of his father during that time.  My patient was willing, but he could not take care of his father, because his spouse vehemently opposed it.  Therefore, he said no to it, due to his lack of assertiveness and out of fear to go against his wife’s words. From the next day onwards, he developed back pain.

You may ask why his wife did not get back pain. That is not the matter here. If you get the pain, there is a message for you. Find the message and rectify your life.

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Son repeats his father’s mistakes

Ravi used to join a new company every year.

Suddenly, his right knee started paining.

I asked Ravi to look in to the past and see whether he was repeating his father’s approach in his profession.

Ravi got his first job when he was of the same age as his father.

His father used to move from one company after another. After some resignations, his father was unemployed until his death.

What does the knee pain is informing Ravi now?

Don’t repeat the mistake of your father. You may end up like your father. Be careful!

Thus we will get many spiritual insights from the body. Body protects us from getting into trouble, by expressing in the form of a pain. Please note here that body can give positive messages for direction and focus too.

There Need Not Be A Mistake!!!

A patient complained that his father is no more.

He developed pain in the right knee.

I told him mentally to prostrate to his father. This is one way of thanking and acknowledging his father’s contribution to his life.

After doing that few times, within a day his pain went off.

Right Knee Issues

The RIGHT KNEE pain is related to the issues with the father. It may be one of the following:

  • Conflict with his father.
  • Blaming her father for every problem in her life.
  • He may not allow his sister to have a share in the parental property.
  • There may be deviation from what the family had stood for.
  • Forgotten the promise made to the father.
  • Forgo the interest of his father.
  • Repeat his father’s mistakes.
  • Not utilizing the resources of his father at the right time.
  • Deviated from the principle of his father regarding business.
  • Dispute over the share of the property.
  • One might not be on talking terms with the father.

When does one need to look into these issues? Only when there is a pain or when one gets hurt on the right knee. Then we can say the male guiding self is reminding us.

 

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