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Cannot support my parents

Kavi

Yesterday, as my son climbed on a chair, he tripped and the chair fell on my right foot. He escaped unhurt and my right foot is paining now especially near the fourth toe. Also, I develop severe itching on the sides of both my thighs only during night.

Naran

“Release your fear about the child” is the message from your body. If you have any guilt about anything, release that too.

Kavi

I have guilt about many things in life – especially about the fact that I cannot support my parents financially since I don’t work. I always dreamed about looking after them since childhood. They live in a rented house and I feel guilty about that too.

I have made many mistakes in the past that I feel guilty about. If I had not done those mistakes and saved money while I was working, I could have looked after my parents now.

How do I release my guilt and fear?

Naran

Take the flower Remedy PINE.

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No Support for the Widowed Father

Sometimes it can happen in the family that one can’t be in the position to support a person due to family circumstances.

A person aged 48 approached me for his lower back pain. The pain is more on the right side. After finding that there is no financial insecurity, no loan to repay and no job insecurity, I asked him a simple question whether he is not giving the required support to any elders in the family? It may be due to the circumstances. If you say “yes”, then keep in mind that the body wants you to give the needed care and protection to that person.  If you take steps for that, your body will relieve you from the pain. To find the veracity of this, you can chant, “I willingly lend support to so and so”. If the pain starts reducing, then this is the mental cause, and you have to follow what you said. The message of the body is “do not create instability in others”.

Then he came out with the story. His father (widower) was taken care of by him and his three brothers, taking turns every three months. One son went on a business tour for a month and wants his brothers to take care of his father during that time.  My patient was willing, but he could not take care of his father, because his spouse vehemently opposed it.  Therefore, he said no to it, due to his lack of assertiveness and out of fear to go against his wife’s words. From the next day onwards, he developed back pain.

You may ask why his wife did not get back pain. That is not the matter here. If you get the pain, there is a message for you. Find the message and rectify your life.

I follow my father’s footsteps

Knee is the guiding self – it’s the parents’ self. Only parents’ related issue will come in the knees. I might be repeating what my father had done or I might be lacking a resource that my father had. Your body reminds that to you through a pain in the knee.

Case History 1: Just 1% mismatch between Son and Father

Right knee refers to one’s relationship with father, while the left knee points to mother. 

A person had problem with his right knee. I asked him whether he had any issues with his father. He replied that “by all means everything is ok with my father. He is a role model for me. I follow him by the book.”

I asked him to tell me where he doesn’t follow his father. You might have followed him 99%. But one percent you may not have followed him. Find that out and follow that practice. Your father wants you to follow that too.

He replied there is one difference between them. While his father was close to his mother, he is not close to his wife.  I told him to take care of his wife and love her as his father did to his mother. Whatever be the circumstances, daily affirm within, “I totally accept and love my wife as she is” and implement it in practice. This is your father’s message through the right knee pain.

Please note here that not all sons who had thrown out his parents may get a pain in the right knee, while somebody might get it. It depends on their karma. Only when the pain comes, the issue should be addressed.

Case History 2: Postponement of Marriage

Girija’s father is no more. For one year I couldn’t figure out a solution. She took some remedies. She did an operation too. But nothing relieved her pain.

She loves a person and the latter loves her so much, that he wanted to marry her. But, she was postponing it. I asked her when her father did marry. He got married when he was 38 years old. But he died at the age of 40.

What’s the message here: get married earlier. You are already 31. You don’t want to end up like your father. Otherwise you may loose your husband or he might die earlier. Don’t repeat your father’s life.

Body guides us so beautifully!

Son repeats his father’s mistakes

Ravi used to join a new company every year.

Suddenly, his right knee started paining.

I asked Ravi to look in to the past and see whether he was repeating his father’s approach in his profession.

Ravi got his first job when he was of the same age as his father.

His father used to move from one company after another. After some resignations, his father was unemployed until his death.

What does the knee pain is informing Ravi now?

Don’t repeat the mistake of your father. You may end up like your father. Be careful!

Thus we will get many spiritual insights from the body. Body protects us from getting into trouble, by expressing in the form of a pain. Please note here that body can give positive messages for direction and focus too.

There Need Not Be A Mistake!!!

A patient complained that his father is no more.

He developed pain in the right knee.

I told him mentally to prostrate to his father. This is one way of thanking and acknowledging his father’s contribution to his life.

After doing that few times, within a day his pain went off.

Right Knee Issues

The RIGHT KNEE pain is related to the issues with the father. It may be one of the following:

  • Conflict with his father.
  • Blaming her father for every problem in her life.
  • He may not allow his sister to have a share in the parental property.
  • There may be deviation from what the family had stood for.
  • Forgotten the promise made to the father.
  • Forgo the interest of his father.
  • Repeat his father’s mistakes.
  • Not utilizing the resources of his father at the right time.
  • Deviated from the principle of his father regarding business.
  • Dispute over the share of the property.
  • One might not be on talking terms with the father.

When does one need to look into these issues? Only when there is a pain or when one gets hurt on the right knee. Then we can say the male guiding self is reminding us.

 

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