Ram is working in a software company.
He developed a left shoulder back pain. I asked him whether he has any problem in the office. He replied that he has no role in the office and therefore, he is not working to his satisfaction.
The Message from his body is, “Because of your lack of interest, your contribution is less in the office. You are giving less than you are receiving. If you continue to do so, in the future you will get lesser appreciation. There may be a cut in the salary too. Even if you find a new job you will be paid less there. If you don’t want these things to happen then give 100% of your efforts”. Otherwise your receiving will become lesser and lesser.
I asked him to affirm ‘I choose to find ways to give 100%. I stop resisting the present job. I accept it totally’.
The moment he committed, the body pain was reduced. Please note that there is no right or wrong here!
Back Pain Indicates…
- Feeling insecure
- You get back pain when somebody becomes your boss with out proper notice to you.
- You might have been overtaken
- Somebody is there always giving you direction in house or in office
- Child less couple thinks, “What will I do in my old age? There is no son or daughter to take care of us”. This worry has created a back pain in a lady. I coined three affirmations for this lady. It helped her a lot. The affirmations are: “I release my Past”, “I am at Peace” and “Divinity takes care of My Future”.
Lower Back Pain – Causes
Somebody had a lower back pain. Lower back means support. To get it we have to be united with the people, for example our family members. Some things are imposed on us. Because we don’t like it, doesn’t mean that we can come out of it.
Rahini’s Lower Back Pain – a Case History
Rahini was attending the workshop on Mind-Body Intelligence.
Her narration during the workshop, “I was suffering from acute pain. This pain started from yesterday morning, when I just arrived from Delhi. The pain is still there. Naran S. Balakumar asked me to affirmations for back pain. I had been doing it for last two hours since the beginning of this lecture. Now the pain is gone totally.”
Naran S Balakumar
This lady is also childless and is feeling insecure.
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A girl after she got married and moved to her husband’s house, very often she phoned up her mother asking for suggestions concerning how to handle her in-laws. In no way she could mingle with her in-laws. In addition, she will complain about them to her parents. She compared her husband’s actions with her father’s and pointed out the differences between them.
She developed a lower back pain. Lower back means place of support. There is no pain while sitting or lying. There is pain only while walking. The body says “you are secured here. By your behaviour don’t spoil your place in your new family. Adjust yourself to fit in here. This is your place of security.”
Soon after her marriage, the girl developed a feeling of being forsaken as she was away from her parents. She felt insecure and lonely without her father around. A sense of incapacity had set inside her. She was resisting changing and adjusting to the new environment and thus a new phase of her life.
One dose of Bach Flower Remedy Walnut and Chicory cured her pain. Within one month, she acclimatized to the new environment.
Change is the order of life. Accept it.
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Ignoring the advice of the parent could be a reason too for knee pain.
Ragu got a pain in the right knee. He forgot the promise made by him to his father. I asked him if there was an issue with his father because right knee points to father. He replied until his death they were good friends.
Has he forgotten any promise made to his father? He remembered about the promise he made to his father before the latter died. He requested his son to do his cremation at Badrinath. Ragu agreed to do it.
After his Dad died at the age of 70, Ragu decided to do it, after the 13-day ceremony. But the Priest told him to do it after one year. He forgot to do it. After 10 years, he had got a pain in the right knee – reminding him about that.
Gave him flower remedies – Rock Water and Walnut. Subsequently his pain subsided.
I asked him to go to Badrinath now. He booked a train. Then, he got into the train. As soon as the train started, his pain was gone. Until then body didn’t trust him. Because train has started he will be going to Badrinath.
His body’s watching him every minute. It’s so intelligent.
Treatment is different. Healing is different. Think about the life issue and resolve it.
Priya fixed her daughter’s marriage.
Invitations were printed and were distributed. She was busy with her marriage.
Then she got a pain in the armpit on the right shoulder. She could not do any work.
Arm means willingness to do the work. When you don’t do something willingly then you will get problems in the right arm.
Right shoulders represent duty and responsibilities.
She did not want to invite her father-in-law
She was totally against her father-in-law attending the marriage.
She was commenting that her father-in-law was such a rogue that she will not invite him for the marriage.
Her body tells her, “Invite him, whether he is a rogue or not. He had to attend his granddaughter’s wedding”. It was Priya’s duty to invite him.
She denied all this and said she can’t invite him. She wanted to tell me the reasons. I told her whatever reasons she may have against her father-in-law her body wants her to invite him.
Reason: her Father-in-law Misbehaved With Her
Previously her father-in-law used to be with them. As he misbehaved with Priya, she exposed it and threw him out of the house.
I told her you have to give the invitation to him whether you are willing or not. Your body says so. I don’t know why it says so. You mayn’t know what’s going on inside his mind. You are seeing your father-in-law from your angle. But your body looks at him from a different angle.
Eventually she decides to invite him
She was not happy until she entered her sister-in-law’s house, where her father-in-law was staying.
As soon as she entered the house, her father-in-law approached her voluntarily and gave her a letter. He asked her to forgive him. He pleaded for her pardon as he was worried she would react nastily.
The letter was written on the same day he was thrown out of the house. Immediately she could sympathize with him. As they were conversing, her pain went off.
She remarked that she would have done a great injustice if she wouldn’t have invited him for the wedding. She said who was she to prevent him from attending his grand daughter’s wedding.
Now they are in good terms.
If you hate somebody or if you are contemptuous of a person or curse somebody, then your right shoulder will be in trouble.
Vidya is married for 25 yrs. Now she has a herniated disk and back pain as well.
On their first night, Vidya told her husband that she is not interested in physical intimacy. However, they can get intimate only to give birth to a child. Later on, they have to abstain from it.
The husband would have wished if she had told him earlier, he would not have married her at all.
However, God has a reason behind every action. It is God’s Will.
She Imposed Her Will on Her Husband
They had a son and their physical relationship ended as she decided.
She had imposed her will on her husband! In addition, she was separated from him emotionally.
Now after 25 years, around the age of 55, she has the pain.
For the past five years, she has consulted many doctors, but to no relief from the pain. She had undergone different kinds of treatments and had gone through various types of scans too.
Let Us Analyze Her Case
Hernia means separation.
Back disks are separated as she has separated (alienated) herself from her husband.
Body is telling her now that what she had done twenty-five years ago back is not correct.
It would have warned her even at that young age in the form of pain. She would have taken then some painkillers. As she was young, she would have overcome the pain comfortably.
Unfortunately, at this age, she cannot rectify the mistake.
Therefore, I asked her to do the forgiving exercise.
The Forgiving Exercise given:
- She was to write her husband’s name and her name on a piece of paper, and kept it on her left palm.
- Then close it with her right palm and affirmed, “I am sorry. Please forgive me. Love, Thanks, and Divine!”
- Then she had to visualise sending them both to God’s source, to be healed by its light and love.
- Then she was to bring them back from God’s source and affirm, “Love! Thanks! Divine!”
- In addition, she had to do the affirmation, “Let this not happen in my next life. Let me then unite with my husband mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually”.
Her Progress Was Miraculous
When I suggested the above, I did not have much hope. However, after one month, she was almost all right.
She learnt yoga. Initially she had difficulties. However, after a few days of Yoga and Pranayama, she gradually gained some improvement.
Now her movements are not restricted. Her pain is bearable as well. She is able to walk joyfully. However, she feels a little bit of pain now and then.
Once you realize your mistake and ready to rectify it, then the body adjusts and rectifies the pain with the thinking let this person be pardoned 🙂
Please note the above material is from the monthly meeting held on Jan and Feb 2009 on Mind and Body Intelligence.