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Never Divorce Your Husband

One 75 years old lady came to see me. She had a right knee problem.

Never can I thank my father

I asked her, “How is the relationship with your father?”

She said, “Fine. We had a very cordial relationship”

“There is no thanks in your heart for him. Can you thank him? Think about all that he had done to you. Thank him for the same”.

She became silent and curtly went off. After about one week, she phoned up to me. “As I came with my son-in-law last time, I could not tell you anything in front of him. To tell the truth, I am not able to thank my father”.

A promise that resulted in suffering

“Why”.

 “Only because of him I suffered all my life”.

Her father showed her a boy when she was to be married and told her that she had to marry him. She agreed to her father. On the date of marriage he came and asked her, “Give me a promise. Whatever happens in your life you would not divorce this boy”.  She gave a promise to her father that she would not divorce him at any cost.

Her marriage was an abusive affair

From the date of marriage, her husband had been physically abusing her. It was a total harassment. She got two children through him and they are well placed now. Because she gave a promise to her father, she did not divorce her husband. All along she had been cursing her father for the same reasons.

She said, “I am a free bird now after my husband’s death. I can neither forgive my husband nor my father”.

Positives in the sufferings

I asked her, “In spite of all these bad events there must be at least one positive event in your life. Only for that purpose you have suffered in your life”.

She is a staunch devotee of Puttaparthi Sai Baba. When her marriage failed, she wanted a spiritual asylum. Therefore, she went to Baba. She composed and sang many songs on gods like Devi, and about Baba. She was also allotted a house there in Puttaparthi.

She had a great spiritual progress. Throughout the day, she was singing only Bhajans. Her life was totally changed to spirituality and she lived a life of an ascetic.

I asked her, “Is this not a positive point? I think only for this aspect your husband behaved like that. If the suffering was not there then you would have lived an ordinary life. We say, Atmavan Bhava, which means ‘I am not the doer’. Like that your husband is also not the doer. When we say we are not the doers, the opposite person is also not the doer”.

When she understood that Divine is the doer, automatically she started forgiving and she is free from her knee pain now.

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Find Love and Trust

Ms. RV

What significance is a person falls down and fractures one of the bones in the foot, on the sole?

Is there any mind-body relationship there? What are the Bach flower remedies or switch words to remedy this situation?

Naran

You are flouting your own rule or principle.

What is a MENTAL FALL?

“Don’t deviate from love even if the other person is totally 100% unjustified or wrong in his action.” This is the message of the body.

Ms. RV

Thank you Naran for the message revealed.

Can any switch words be used or flower remedies for this condition as it is for my friend.

Naran

Ask her to chant “I trust myself and all totally”.

Exercises from “I Love Myself” workbook to develop trust in oneself and life

Exercise 17: “IT IS SAFE FOR ME TO TRUST”

Think about your unnecessary fears and worries (over which you cannot do anything) and release them one after another.

Fear about others, self and health – when there is fear, it will not allow love to be there. To remove your fears chant, “I AM SORRY. PLEASE FORGIVE ME. FIND DIVINE FIBER”

The switch word FIBER creates movement, as fear constricts a movement.

‘Hand’ful of messages from our body

Right shoulder pain

All long he was lazy. He has to fulfill the duties in full. He will avoid interviews if there is any problem attending the interview. He will give an excuse, “I have to attend my friend’s marriage”. Which is priority number one in your life? It is responsibility. So you need to be responsible is the message from this pain.

Left hand fingers, especially middle

Stop criticizing, condemning, blaming others; have Intolerance. For some, they will get pain in the right hand fingers.

Left hand

Body is giving and receiving through hands. When you get pain in them, don’t think in terms of right or wrong. Think it as a message from your body.

If you are angry, when you need love, nobody will love you. Left hand side pain indicates you will not receive love.

Right hand

Right hand side pain indicates:

  • That what you have is more and therefore, give more.
  • If you have pain on top of the hand, then take the Bach Flower remedy CENTAURY.
  • Give now is the message from right hand. Otherwise, when you are ready to give to a person, then they may not be available to receive it from you.
  • Have an attitude of gratitude as it is missing from you.
  • Understand and grasp the subject on hand. The person who works more knows less. They will have pain in the right hand.

Right ankle

You have taken a decision. Now, reverse the decision is the message from the body.

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