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Unpack your anger

Sathya

My husband’s acupuncturist says his liver is heated too much. What does it indicate? He asked him to put liver pack daily.

Naran

Anger, rage and unconnected with parents

Sathya

My husband is frustrated about his parents. How to overcome this?

My father-in-law has two wives. He lives with his 2nd wife and showing no attention to my husband’s family.

Naran

It is not his concern. “Judging the father, and getting angry as well as feeling frustrated is not required; you go on your own way, without being angry with him” is the message for him from his BODY.

Ask him to do the forgiving exercise (regarding his father).

Ask him to chant “BE TINY CONCEDE CLEAR REVERSE LOVE NOW” daily 108 times for one year.

Sathya

I am sorry to say this. He is not into chanting but he will take pills.

So can you pls suggest flower remedies for him and I will try to make him chant the above words.

Naran

He has to chant. There is no alternative.

Give him BEECH, WALNUT, HOLLY and CHERRY PLUM to tolerate and stop judging, release the anger and to bear without resisting.

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Pain in hands

Naran

Working hard and not getting the reward – one will get pain in the right hand.

If one works hard, but doesn’t bother about the reward then, he will get the pain in the left hand.

His wife is more concerned about the reward than him. He is a workaholic. The body is telling him don’t be a workaholic and stop working hard.

Why to work hard when you don’t have time for your children and your wife. Stop doing overwork (Bach Flower Remedy OAK)

If you had not helped somebody in times of need.

Right Shoulder Back Side Pain

You have not fulfilled your commitment

If you are avoiding somebody, meet him and you will be benefited. The pain may come in the left shoulder also.

One may give too much advice to others; the body’s message is “Stop the advice and understand his priorities instead”.

Restricting and choking the other man.

Left Shoulders Pain

If there is a pain in left shoulder, left hand, left arm or fingers from left hand then ask the question, do you harbor the following thoughts:

  • I am not respected
  • My achievements are not appreciated
  • My role in the family or at work is not recognized.
  • For example, when the husband works 24/7, his wife thinks “I am not wanted here. I am not just a cook. I want to be appreciated.”

We are living in this world to get some love, some appreciation and some recognition.  What else we need?

To get your due recognition, take the flower remedies CENTAURY and CHICORY.

Left Shoulder Back Pain

  • You have misunderstood somebody. You have to resolve it and have to take the first step.
  • You have to collect your dues.
  • Prevented somebody from doing something. Two friends: one wanted to go to a temple, while another one forced him to go to a movie. The latter developed a pain in the left shoulder

Pain in the Elbows

Sathya

My husband got left elbow pain and again. He got hit at the left elbow again for 2 times.

What does it indicate?

Naran S Balakumar

He is unable to devote time to the loved ones, especially his wife.

Please take care of me – a Case History

Venki, a thirteen years old kid, whenever he takes a pen to write something, he will get pain in his right arm – his writing hand.

If there is pain in the right hand – “take care of me” is the message. With the pain in his right hand, he is telling his parents to take care of him.

What’s the problem here?  He is terribly angry with his parents.

However, while he was talking with Naran, he was holding his left elbow.

Elbows are used to embrace others. Right hand holding the left elbow –i.e. his (giving) right hand supporting his left (receiving) elbow indicates that he wants appreciation and love.

Venki was studying in 8th standard. Not even once, any of his parents attended his school. He was first in athletics and a class topper in Tamil, his mother tongue.  No appreciation from his parents regarding this.

He was average in other subjects. His parents told him that if he gets 1st in any other subjects – like Math and science, then they would come to his school.

His body is saying “Hey! Parents take care of me!  I need to be loved”.

He was prescribed the Bach Flower Remedies CHICORY (longing for love) and WILLOW (for his anger against parents).

His parents were advised to give the emotional security that the child needs.

I follow my father’s footsteps

Knee is the guiding self – it’s the parents’ self. Only parents’ related issue will come in the knees. I might be repeating what my father had done or I might be lacking a resource that my father had. Your body reminds that to you through a pain in the knee.

Case History 1: Just 1% mismatch between Son and Father

Right knee refers to one’s relationship with father, while the left knee points to mother. 

A person had problem with his right knee. I asked him whether he had any issues with his father. He replied that “by all means everything is ok with my father. He is a role model for me. I follow him by the book.”

I asked him to tell me where he doesn’t follow his father. You might have followed him 99%. But one percent you may not have followed him. Find that out and follow that practice. Your father wants you to follow that too.

He replied there is one difference between them. While his father was close to his mother, he is not close to his wife.  I told him to take care of his wife and love her as his father did to his mother. Whatever be the circumstances, daily affirm within, “I totally accept and love my wife as she is” and implement it in practice. This is your father’s message through the right knee pain.

Please note here that not all sons who had thrown out his parents may get a pain in the right knee, while somebody might get it. It depends on their karma. Only when the pain comes, the issue should be addressed.

Case History 2: Postponement of Marriage

Girija’s father is no more. For one year I couldn’t figure out a solution. She took some remedies. She did an operation too. But nothing relieved her pain.

She loves a person and the latter loves her so much, that he wanted to marry her. But, she was postponing it. I asked her when her father did marry. He got married when he was 38 years old. But he died at the age of 40.

What’s the message here: get married earlier. You are already 31. You don’t want to end up like your father. Otherwise you may loose your husband or he might die earlier. Don’t repeat your father’s life.

Body guides us so beautifully!

Can’t provide love to others

Elbow means embrace. If you have a problem there, then you can’t give love to anyone.

Pain in Left Elbow

Keerthi Prasad developed a pain in the left elbow. In addition he was coughing for 15 years. Left side means receiving – love. Suppose you don’t receive love from somebody or if you give more space to a person then you will suffer in the left elbow.

Keerthi’s pain shows that he is not receiving his due love from his family. Who is the culprit – his family or him? In his case he is the one. For 15 years he never laughed. He will not look at his wife while talking to her. He will keep finding fault with the cleanliness of house. By constantly criticizing and showing his anger to his wife and children, he maintained a stoic distance from them.  There was disharmony in the house. They hate him so much that they don’t want him to be in the house.

 “If the house is in order probably I may not be alive”, his wife says. Sometimes the person living with you will say what the body is saying to you. I gave him Harmony pack – Beech for criticism, Willow for aversion and anger, and Walnut to change and adjust to his family (not the other way around).

He is a changed person now. His two children are very happy because they see him smile. Pain is almost reduced now and it’s bearable.

Cough represents anger. It’s more with him. Wet cough – recent anger and dry cough – anger is chronic.

Pain in Right Elbow

Venki, a thirteen years old kid, whenever he takes a pen to write something, he gets pain in his right arm – his writing hand. If there is pain in the right hand – “take care of me” is the message. With the pain in his right hand, he is telling his parents to take care of him. What’s the problem here?  He is terribly angry with his parents.  

While he was talking with Naran, he was holding his left elbow. Elbows are used to embrace others. Right hand holding the left elbow – left elbow means he wants some love and appreciation and he desires for it.

Venki is studying in 8th standard. Not even once any of his parents attended his school. He comes first in athletics and a class topper in Tamil, his mother tongue.  He is average in other subjects. No appreciation from his parents. His parents told him, if he gets 1st in other subjects, like Math and science then they will come to school.

His body is saying that his parents have not shown any love and appreciation. “Hey! Parents take care of me!  I need to be loved”. Why he gets a pain in the right hand then. Observe where his hand is going. It touches the left elbow. Observe the gestures as well as the pain. They have more value than just mere words.

He was prescribed Chicory (longing for love) and Willow (for his anger against parents). His parents were advised to give the emotional security that the child needs.

Separated Relationship

Naran

Vidya is married for 25 yrs. Now she has a herniated disk and back pain as well.

On their first night, Vidya told her husband that she is not interested in physical intimacy. However, they can get intimate only to give birth to a child. Later on, they have to abstain from it.

The husband would have wished if she had told him earlier, he would not have married her at all.

However, God has a reason behind every action. It is God’s Will.

She Imposed Her Will on Her Husband

They had a son and their physical relationship ended as she decided.

She had imposed her will on her husband! In addition, she was separated from him emotionally.

Now after 25 years, around the age of 55, she has the pain.

For the past five years, she has consulted many doctors, but to no relief from the pain. She had undergone different kinds of treatments and had gone through various types of scans too.

Let Us Analyze Her Case

Hernia means separation.

Back disks are separated as she has separated (alienated) herself from her husband.

Body is telling her now that what she had done twenty-five years ago back is not correct.

It would have warned her even at that young age in the form of pain. She would have taken then some painkillers. As she was young, she would have overcome the pain comfortably.

Unfortunately, at this age, she cannot rectify the mistake.

Therefore, I asked her to do the forgiving exercise.

The Forgiving Exercise given:

  • She was to write her husband’s name and her name on a piece of paper, and kept it on her left palm.
  • Then close it with her right palm and affirmed, “I am sorry. Please forgive me. Love, Thanks, and Divine!”
  • Then she had to visualise sending them both to God’s source, to be healed by its light and love.
  • Then she was to bring them back from God’s source and affirm, “Love! Thanks! Divine!”
  • In addition, she had to do the affirmation, “Let this not happen in my next life. Let me then unite with my husband mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually”.

Her Progress Was Miraculous

When I suggested the above, I did not have much hope. However, after one month, she was almost all right.

She learnt yoga. Initially she had difficulties. However, after a few days of Yoga and Pranayama, she gradually gained some improvement.

Now her movements are not restricted. Her pain is bearable as well.  She is able to walk joyfully. However, she feels a little bit of pain now and then.

Explanation

Once you realize your mistake and ready to rectify it, then the body adjusts and rectifies the pain with the thinking let this person be pardoned 🙂

Please note the above material is from the monthly meeting held on Jan and Feb 2009 on Mind and Body Intelligence.

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